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Drew Sidora in her with husband ralph pitman: former rival Kenya Moore.
on sunday real housewives of atlantaMoore stood up for Sidora, accusing Pittman of “disrespectful” behavior.
Pittman and Sidora have been feuding since joining the show last season, first because of his Last minute, unannounced solo trip To Tampa, Florida, this year, he clashed when he admitted to being “intimate” with his female assistant.he later Ending his sumptuous dinner for Sidora As she tries to fix their ongoing problems.
“Drew doesn’t respect me, doesn’t appreciate me,” Pittman complained during couples therapy on Sunday. “I gave her something any woman would love. This one here? As if everything was wrong with her because she was insatiable! I tried giving her steak and lobster that night. Really, that night? She deserved lunch. “
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“These are things we didn’t fix!” When their therapist, Dr. Ken, asked her to live in the moment, Sidora quickly shot back, describing her marriage as a “vicious cycle of highs and lows.” “How can we be in such unreal happiness?”
The compromise, at least temporarily, was for the two to participate in a 30-day ceasefire in which they agreed not to engage in any combative dialogue. “Don’t yell, don’t attack under any circumstances,” Dr. Ken told them.
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This didn’t seem to last long, and a few days later — during an actor’s trip to New York City — the two began bickering again as they discussed their issues. “Emotionally, I’m still dealing with the fact that we’re even dealing with another woman,” Sidora told her companions housewifeexplaining why she no longer wears her wedding ring.
“I had to fire the assistant,” Pittman said. “I guess one question is, how do you finally get over it and say, ‘This is what happened in the past, and now we can get past it.'”
but Candy Bruce It’s not going to let Pittman off so easily. “Come on, you know this looks really crazy,” she told him about his relationship with his former assistant, who allegedly offered to massage Pittman over text messages Sidora later discovered.
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“If you don’t understand the context behind it, it can!” Pittman said in his defense. “I do have my role…but it’s not like Ralph said, ‘Hey, let me go grab this big-ass assistant!’ [Drew and I] We had some really bad growing pains while we were trying to do business together. We are in a dark place. “
This logic does not apply to Burruss. “It’s even worse if you have a woman around you who works closely with you,” she shot back. “I don’t understand how you would feel if you couldn’t see her.”
Still, Pittman didn’t hold back. “Why are we still talking about this?” he asked Sidora. “It’s good that what happened to you was different from what happened to me.”
This was not good for Moore, who took the opportunity to step in and stand up for Sidora.
“Look, let me tell you now. If my husband said that to me, I’d turn this table over because that would be disrespectful,” she told Pitman. “You’re basically saying she’s lying, and that’s not how it happened. If someone said that to me in front of me, it would make me mad, especially when I was hurt. Don’t you get it? You’re going to tear her apart.”
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She also noted that Pittman’s “Gaslight” is reminiscent of what her estranged husband, Mark Daly, once did. “Ralph, you remind me of Mark, it’s crazy,” Moore said. “She doesn’t want to feel ineffective. She doesn’t want to say something, you get defensive, you say, ‘You’re crazy to think that.'”
“He’s a jerk–. He’s a jerk–. I’ve seen the way he talks to her, and it reminds me of when Mark would talk to me like that,” Moore confessed at the table. “I was trying to Look at Drew for who he really is, and all I can see is someone who’s really hurt.”
Sidora thanked Moore for his support. “Kenya is actually communicating my feelings,” she said in her confession. “I hope Ralph actually hears it, and he might do something that she and Marc went through. You’ll see how they end up.”
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In the end, Sidola and Pittman didn’t seem to find any solution. While the women seemed to agree that Pittman was wrong to ignore Sidor’s feelings, they also had some strong feelings for Sidor.
“However, Drew…but so are you. He’s just doing what you’re allowed to do,” Marlow Hampton said, with a new housewife Sanya Richards Ross added, “It’s a good point because you really teach people how to love you.”
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“Some of us have been verbally fighting Drew. She can’t let it go,” Moore admitted. “Drew can’t let it go, it’s ironic because she accuses you of something she does too. Like admitting when [she’s] Incorrect. “
Maybe that’s what Sidora will do, as she admits in the episode, she’s committed to working with Pittman to solve the problem. “I want my marriage to work. I want to be married forever,” she said. “All prayer warriors fight for the Pittman family.”
real housewives of atlanta It airs Sunday (8pm ET) on Bravo.